True, but I think being groped by a stranger in public is dirty but hot. People all around and suddenly you feel a hand on your ass...do you say something? Did anyone see that? For that matter, WHO did that? What can you do? Nothing...just feel someone violate you in front of all those people, totally objectifying you, while you have to stand there and take it because there's nowhere to move to, too crowded to pull away, and don't want to cause a scene...feeling that stranger touching you, feeling dirty from his touch. Yeah, I can see where that would be hot on both ends, LOL...I would be lyin' if I said I had never intentonally brushed up against some guy so my hand or some other part bumped up against his ass or body as I went by. Sometimes it is just so yummy you gotta just..touch it..LOL But I have never had the nerve to actually caress his ass..probably why I am a submissive type over a dom type, haha...would much rather be groped than do the groping!